tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28819921664856226882024-03-12T19:43:30.640-04:00The Discrete MaleThe Discrete Malehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05306515484674139906noreply@blogger.comBlogger166125truetag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881992166485622688.post-42937147312682140932011-07-17T23:02:00.002-04:002011-07-17T23:10:14.405-04:00I Need To Write...That poem is inspiring for a writer whose lost his words, who couldn't comprehend what 26 letters could do in his life. I never knew how much I missed writing until I began editing my best friends 180 page dissertation that she is turning into a book. I could feel her brainwaves as I read through her elaborate social interpretations of Hip-Hop and Feminism and I couldn't but wonder what could I The Discrete Malehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05306515484674139906noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881992166485622688.post-39717228116588716802011-05-27T22:35:00.001-04:002011-05-27T22:35:20.492-04:00The Discrete Malehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05306515484674139906noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881992166485622688.post-14347252483986822942011-02-15T00:05:00.003-05:002011-02-15T01:46:09.534-05:00Motherfucka of the Week: Big BoiHe calls wit that raspy and asks, "you ready, man?" I smile a lil, "yea, I'm good, how long?" he answers, "be there in a little bit" as he inhales on a black, "cool."He arrives at the door, knocks that lil beat I know, and I answer, grab my coat and we walk out to the Suburban. At wit that hood wit, southern drawl, and G attitude he somehow makes me laugh without being comical, somehow turnsThe Discrete Malehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05306515484674139906noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881992166485622688.post-37358473425744256142011-02-14T23:37:00.024-05:002011-02-15T01:00:55.871-05:00Porn Pics of the Week: Daddies!!!So, I'm dating a cat in his mid-thirties, which doesn't necessarily constitute him as a daddy but after seeing him and talking to him, he's like a daddy...LOL. Definitely not in a bad way cuz he's a sexy dude. I wanted to give a tribute some sexy daddies compliments of the various places I found them...LOL.Enjoy!The Discrete Malehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05306515484674139906noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881992166485622688.post-47605275148690984142011-02-14T23:13:00.004-05:002011-02-14T23:34:37.886-05:00Porn Site of the Week: A HUB FOR PORN-www.pornhub.comOk guys, just when I thought I had seen it all, just when I thought my sperm wouldn't see another free website of quality, just when I thought I had exacerbated all of my possibilities I came across...(DRUM ROLL, FIREWORKS)...PORN HUB!Ok, it's not that serious, but I can definitely say that PornHub is one of the ultimate porn sites. Not only are there scenes actual full scenes (unlike a certain XThe Discrete Malehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05306515484674139906noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881992166485622688.post-27706219774499681642011-02-14T22:56:00.003-05:002011-02-14T23:11:30.469-05:00Valentine's are Funny...I woke up to a text this morning from one of my homeboys that said, "Happy Halloween (I'm not bitter, tho)."No, I can't peg you as bitter after you just referred to Valentine's Day as Halloween...LOL.But, if you think about it Valentine's is a 'holiday' that people are more afraid of than actual Halloween. If you put 10/31 in a ring with 2/14 and made it a national championship fight, I'm sure The Discrete Malehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05306515484674139906noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881992166485622688.post-88009546936540096732011-02-14T22:32:00.003-05:002011-02-14T22:55:32.634-05:00Hip-Hop's Old School: Lesson 4Earlier I discussed some new things that are happening in my life and I gotta give shouts out to the ultimate man in my life, THE CREATOR. The Creator rewards creativity and tenacity and I think that as progress in life he sees that I at least try to use my creative juices for the benefit for others and he is slowly trying to answers my prayers of upward mobility because of it.So, I wanna give The Discrete Malehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05306515484674139906noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881992166485622688.post-22499233403147577702011-02-14T22:14:00.005-05:002011-02-14T22:32:42.106-05:00...Down Low???I was on one of those sites where you hook up with other men, well, boys, well some men, some boys, and I came across this guy's profile and his username was DLGUY4U or DLFREEK1, something to that effect and I looked through his pictures because, honestly, the name did intrigue me. Well, first off he had a face pic on his profile, and I said to myself, ok, he's living in a delusional world, then The Discrete Malehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05306515484674139906noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881992166485622688.post-28944835510757756852011-02-14T22:05:00.002-05:002011-02-14T22:14:20.524-05:00...I'm Back!It's been 3 weeks since I've posted last and a lot of things have happened within those 3 weeks that have occupied my time. Talks of promotions, talks of buying a home, talks of budding relationships are definitely good things.I use my blog as my public journal giving other men who fuck with men the opportunity to read articles that they can identify with so that they don't feel as if what they The Discrete Malehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05306515484674139906noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881992166485622688.post-5822422031586347362011-01-26T00:37:00.002-05:002011-01-26T00:50:56.178-05:00Questions, Questions...He asked me "where is the vinegar?" and I fell in love, well, lust.He's 5'10, about 210 pounds, light green eyes, mixed heritage, black and mexican and no matter the weather he comes in these tight polo shirts that hug his arms and his chest and shorts. Early 40's from what I can tell, a nice guy, a REAL NICE GUY.I fell in lust with him as he asked me if we carried vinegar in the store because heThe Discrete Malehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05306515484674139906noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881992166485622688.post-66536451836005433582011-01-26T00:15:00.003-05:002011-01-26T00:37:01.557-05:00Just One of Those Days...I cried today. For the first time in some time I cried. Well, no, I've cried twice in the past month because I've lost two very important people in my life, within the same week, and that may have a great deal to do with why I had a breakdown and somewhat of a break through today.And, I'm not telling you this to get pity comments or to jolt you emotionally; however, I want to share my thoughts The Discrete Malehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05306515484674139906noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881992166485622688.post-74209994685166649742011-01-16T01:22:00.002-05:002011-01-16T01:32:37.001-05:00The Exploitation of MLK: Here's To You ATL!I think I was really taken aback about two years ago when I found out that there was this event for THE GAYS that happened every MLK Weekend.The debauchery, the sinister nature, and the fuckery that happens in the same city where this man was born and raised and we use it to commence this fuckery!Now, I can understand if we go to ATL for the weekend and maybe hit a club or two, have a couple of The Discrete Malehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05306515484674139906noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881992166485622688.post-79945560136116314982011-01-09T01:03:00.002-05:002011-01-09T01:18:31.624-05:00The Discrete Relationship 13: The ExListen fellas, the one thing that we have to learn as men is that we are analytical thinkers, well, most of us. We make decisions, not with our emotions, but with our logic. Well, I'll say, at least for me, my decisions are based 90 percent in logic, 10 percent in emotions.When we decide to commit to someone we've made a conscious decision and we feel comfortable because we just didn't think The Discrete Malehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05306515484674139906noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881992166485622688.post-62506377849952547142011-01-09T00:19:00.006-05:002011-01-09T01:02:47.767-05:00The Discrete Relationship 12: Those Fucking Thugz(Photo by: Bing.com)Yo son, one of my turn ons back on the day bru, was lil dudes in my hood who had that swagger, gold tooth, smoked out lips, clean cut, smelling nice wit some fresh Timbs or A-1's.I would get hard looking at them motherfuckas imagining them showing me what no other dude was supposed to see, supple balls, nice veiny dick, washboard abs, and a smile to make the package The Discrete Malehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05306515484674139906noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881992166485622688.post-44013832936320565972010-12-26T21:46:00.002-05:002010-12-26T22:17:44.406-05:00For Colored Guys Who Have Committed Sexual Suicide When Himself Is Not EnuffI watched as the stereotypes played across the screen,These tall muscular bodies prouncing around with their big dicks and fat asses,And I compared myself to the talking screen comparing my short limbs and small waist to theirs.I thought the only way I could even image putting my dick in his mouth is if I had a profile that detailed how many times I went to the gym and how big my little head The Discrete Malehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05306515484674139906noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881992166485622688.post-65535623841678662902010-12-22T01:10:00.006-05:002010-12-22T01:36:03.474-05:00Motherfucka of the Week: Santonio HolmesI like 'em dark, fit, and intelligent. I know I like something different every week...just see it as me understanding that I have various attractions (and STFU!...LOL).Santonio Holmes has not only been Rookie of the Year, but he has also been given the title MVP. The dude has mad heart in the game and definitely gives his all each season inspite of the track record for the two teams he's The Discrete Malehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05306515484674139906noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881992166485622688.post-702815446156530902010-12-21T23:39:00.002-05:002010-12-21T23:51:21.262-05:00How Much Do You Masturbate???I did a poll a while back (not a pole, a poll) that asked how much YOU masturbate. YES, YOU!And, I don't remember the results, but I do want to revisit the topic. I was speaking with my therapist (that sounds kind of uppity, but like I'm crazy all at the same time, but we keep it real and more black people need to have one) and we were discussing some of the things that keeps me from having GOOD The Discrete Malehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05306515484674139906noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881992166485622688.post-33982827589213155542010-12-21T23:05:00.002-05:002010-12-21T23:37:52.117-05:00B.M.H. Part 5: My Ultimate RoutineIight fellas. So, one of my followers asked me the other day what do I do when I'm gymming. And, I have went back to my old routine that gave ME the most success. Now, all of our bodies are different so you have to figure out what works best for you. This is my NEW agenda for my workouts with some OLD things that worked for me in the past.1. Protein Intake per Day: It is recommended that you The Discrete Malehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05306515484674139906noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881992166485622688.post-27968971458659430612010-12-21T22:31:00.004-05:002010-12-21T23:39:03.197-05:00The Discrete Relationship 11: WTF is Wrong?I want a relationship, I do.But, I want a relationship by MY standards. There is nothing wrong with that at all. However, when do our standards become the thing that limits us attaining a successful relationship with another guy.Having said that let me ask this...do you know how MTV, BET, VH1 plays reruns all fucking day (which is ultimately smart because we will watch that bullshit over and overThe Discrete Malehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05306515484674139906noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881992166485622688.post-27372071410013321102010-12-07T00:57:00.005-05:002010-12-07T01:55:31.159-05:00The 3rd WheelWhen we were growing up our parents dreamed of the day that we would advance from our three wheel tricycles to a two wheel big boy bike. We somehow learned, through our childhood transportation, that two wheels are better than three.But, are we as gay and bisexual men, relearning the value of that third wheel?Scenario: You meet a guy. The guy is cool as fuck, conversation is easy, face is easy toThe Discrete Malehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05306515484674139906noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881992166485622688.post-37043215436694565482010-12-06T03:41:00.007-05:002010-12-06T04:08:04.485-05:00Motherfucka of the Week: Ryan MatthewsMost wouldn't think of him as a sex symbol. But, even the adjectives that describe him that doesn't seem sexy like shy, reserved, and MAMA'S BOY, he still finds a way to make men and women want to jump in bed.It's the neck. I have this thing for muscular or husky cats with thick necks. Looking at him is like looking at a piece of artwork. Sunkissed skin adorned with colorful tattoo's thatThe Discrete Malehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05306515484674139906noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881992166485622688.post-71327336168474729562010-12-06T02:08:00.006-05:002010-12-06T03:09:37.617-05:00B.M.H.: Shaun T's INSANITYWe've seen the commercials, seen the ads on websites, seen the questions about his sexuality, yes, I'm talking about Shaun T--the dude who invented "INSANITY," one of the best selling products by BeachBody.From the pics, from the testimonies, from what I've heard from co-workers and other locals, it seems like Shaun T has some idea of how to get you into shape. With long blasts of intense The Discrete Malehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05306515484674139906noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881992166485622688.post-26202330672726300782010-12-06T01:53:00.002-05:002010-12-06T02:08:10.365-05:00Over 10,000 Views!!!I started this blog in hopes of sharing some of the views shared by men who struggle with the same issues I struggle with being gay or bisexual and choosing to live discreetly. I think that choosing to live this lifestyle is one of the most difficult things to do, especially as black men, because not only do you play the game of black and white in your everyday professional and social lives, butThe Discrete Malehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05306515484674139906noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881992166485622688.post-47859328312263819812010-12-06T01:11:00.010-05:002010-12-06T01:50:31.648-05:00Polls That Discuss Who Can Work Your Pole!So, the results are in and I know its been a long time coming--that means its been a while since I've posted poll results that tell me a little bit about what makes your poles RISE!!!I asked: WHO CAN PLAY WITH YOUR BALLS TONIGHT?Desean Jackson 8%Ron Artest 0%Reggie Bush 58%Chad Ochocinco 25%Terrell Owens 28%Devin Thomas 16%AND, you went for the bait. So, I know that nice pink lips, bright The Discrete Malehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05306515484674139906noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881992166485622688.post-56850133184296180402010-12-04T01:21:00.007-05:002010-12-06T01:10:41.841-05:00Polls That Discuss Who Can Work Your Pole!So, the results are in and I know its been a long time coming--that means its been a while since I've posted poll results that tell me a little bit about what makes your poles RISE!!!I asked: WHO COULD DROP A LINE ON UR DICK OR ASS?Gorilla Zoe 0%Waka Flocka Flame 25%Lil Wayne 8%Drake 25%Andre 3000 41%Flo Rida 33%Rappers seem to be the epitome of what we look for in a guy, for most guys. We likeThe Discrete Malehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05306515484674139906noreply@blogger.com0